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Daily Gratitude Newsletters
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Daily Gratitude Newsletter
Volume 4, Issue 6 -April 2008
Putting Gratitude To Work For You
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Other People's Opinions
"Favor and disgrace are equally problematic.
Favor lifts you up; disgrace knocks you down.
Either one depends on the opinions of others,
and causes you to depart from your center."
- - Tao Te Ching
I'm always amazed at how much real wisdom was
known and written a long time ago. We get so
involved in the newest technology and scientific
discoveries that we tend to think that our generation
must be really smart compared to those poor
ignorant souls of the past.
Well, being smart and being wise are two very
different things! There's a reason why many ancient
teachings are called "wisdom traditions" and not
"smart traditions." In my experience, smart can get
you into a lot of trouble, wisdom can keep you out.
The quotation from the Tao Te Ching that I have
above is over 2,600 years old, but its wisdom is timeless.
One way in which we can have a very emotionally
upsetting life is to allow ourself to depend on others
for our self esteem.
I think that we all know that we can't let the negative
comments of others get to us. We learn from experience
to "shake it off" and go forward. But, as the Tao points
out, we need to be just as unaffected by compliments
as we are by criticism!
Why should that be? We all love compliments, right?
But compliments can be addictive and actually make
us more vulnerable to criticism, if we depend on them
for positive reinforcement. Because, as the Tao says,
we are depending on the opinion of others and
departing from our center. Our self esteem should rise
up out of the center of ourselves, in our confidence
that we are doing our best, and that we're just fine.
Compliment addiction can also distract us from our
purpose in life if we begin to do what we know will
bring compliments rather than doing what we know
is truly ours to do. Look at the lives of the people
who have really accomplished something magnificent
and you will see that they had to be indifferent to both
criticism and compliments to pursue their dream.
They stayed true to their center.
From a gratitude standpoint we can be equally
grateful for compliments and criticism, seeing each
as an input that we can examine and, if we choose,
use as feedback to improve. But if we use either one
to determine how we feel about ourselves, then
we're in trouble.
Is there anything in your life that you're not doing
because of potential criticism? Is there anything
that you are doing that you'd rather not, but you
don't want to give up the compliments? That's
something to think about.
In gratitude,
Wes
PS - Remember to go to dailygratitude.com and
give us your comments.
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© 2008 Wes Hopper. All rights reserved.
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