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Daily Gratitude Newsletters
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Daily Gratitude Newsletter
Volume 2, Issue 2 - February 2006
Putting Gratitude To Work For You
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Today we celebrate the day of love - Valentine's Day!
Read on for the details on how to connect with the ones
you love, and expand your gratitude for them.
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"You Have To Learn The Language"
"What else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the
fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences
otherwise than we do…? "-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Have you ever had the experience of being in a loving
relationship but feeling that you weren't quite getting the
appreciation and love that you wanted?
Have you had the experience of feeling that your
expressions of love weren't recognized or appreciated
by your partner?
Well, good news! There's a logical reason why this
happens and you can learn to get it right! I don't know
about you, but for me, that's really good news.
The key is found in an informative book by Gary Chapman
called "The Five Love Languages" which reveals that
people give and receive love in five different ways. Each of
us has our primary love language, with the other four being
of somewhat less importance.
If you want your partner to really feel appreciated and
loved, you have to tell them in THEIR primary love
language. Naturally, we usually tell them in OUR primary
love language, which is often not the same.
These five languages are:
1. Affirmative words - we express our love with words.
We tell the other how special they are to us.
2. Quality Time - we spend time away from distractions
in the company of one another, we listen to them, share
with them, connect with them.
3. Acts of Service - we do things for them - make the
bed, take out the garbage, wash the dishes, pick up
the dry cleaning.
4. Gifts - We put time and thought into finding or
creating gifts that show that they were on our mind.
5. Physical Touch - How about back rubs, cuddling on
the sofa, holding hands while you walk or watch a movie?
Yes, I know that we all like all of these things, but for
each of us, some are much more important than others.
Chapman says that we each have an empty love tank
that needs to be filled, and if our partner is not speaking
our primary love language, the tank stays empty.
Perhaps you've had trouble feeling really grateful for your
partner because they're just not giving you what you need.
You know that feeling you have that "something's missing"
but you don't know what it is? Maybe your love tank is
running on empty.
Here's a thought - maybe your partner's love tank is empty,
too!
My wife and I heard a talk on this the other day, and as
soon as we could, we sat down to compare notes with
each other. I thought I pretty well understood what her
primary languages were - but I was wrong! I was close,
but still wrong in a couple of key areas.
I highly recommend that you get a copy of Chapman's
book and review it with your partner. Even if you're
single, you'll want to know your own preferences, and this
will help you understand and appreciate anyone you
date, too. You can get the book on Amazon or at most
bookstores.
Now when your partner does one of those puzzling things
that used to leave you confused, you can recognize the
love language being spoken and be genuinely grateful.
After all, being grateful is what we're all about here at
Daily Gratitude!
Have a great month. I am very grateful for each and
every one of you, no matter what your language!
Peace and love,
Wes
PS - Remember to go to dailygratitude.com and
give us your comments.
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Don't forget to get your Goal Achiever program.
There's an autographed book, too.
CreateSuccessSeminars.com/goalach.html
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© 2006 Wes Hopper. All rights reserved.
Feel free to pass the above in its entirety to
anyone you wish.
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